SIX STEPS TO LASTING FRIENDSHIP

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1. BE A FRIEND: Abraham was called "God's friend" because of his unwavering faith. (James 2:23) But there was an additional reason. The Bible says that Abraham demonstrated his affection for God. (2 Chronicle 20:7) He took the initiative and let his feelings be known to God. (Genesis 18:20-23) Practice giving and others will give to you. A word of Encouragement and a helping hand may be the seed from which a great friendship will grow. The only way to have a friend is to be one.

2. MAKE TIME TO CULTIVATE A FRIENDSHIP: Most people desire the benefits of friendship yet; they are too busy to invest the necessary time. (Romans 12:15) Share the happiness and success, the sorrows and disappointment, of others. Rejoice with people Who rejoice, weep with people who weep. Be minded the same way toward others as to yourself. Remember, friendship, like a flowering, plant needs to be watered and nurtured for it to blossom and that takes time.

3. PAY ATTENTION WHEN OTHER TALKS: Everyone must be swift about hearing, slow about speaking" say the disciple James. (James 1:19) When you converse with other, show personal interest in their feelings. Encourage them to talk about themselves. Take the lead in displaying honor to them. (Romans 12:10) Then they will want to be with you.

4. BE FORGIVING: "Be ready to forgive Seventy Time Seven." (Matthew 18:22) A true friend is quick to overlook minor failings. True friends are loved for their fine qualities; their minor faults are overlooked. "Continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely." (Colossians 3:13) Those who learn to be forgiving keeps their friend.

5. RESPECT THE PRIVCY OF OTHERS: Everyone needs some privacy, including your friends. (Proverbs 25:17) "Make your foot rare at the House of your fellowman. Be reasonable about the frequency and length of visit with friends. Avoid possessiveness; use good judgement when expressing personal tastes and opinions on matters. This contributes to a refreshing and welcome friendship.

6. BE GENEROUS: Friendships are cultivated through generosity. The Apostle Paul's advice is to "be liberal, ready to share." (1 Timothy 6:18) Share encouraging words with others. (Proverbs 11:25) When you show genuine interest in the wellbeing of others, they are drawn to you. Think about what you can do for them instead of focusing on what they can do for you.

FRIENDS FOREVER True friendship is a wonderful gift from God. It stems from his own personality and makeup. Friendship is a gift everyone is able to give and receive. The quality of your life depends much on the quality of your friendships. Often those who live for self are not happy because they have no friends with whom to share their things or their thoughts.

There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving. (Acts 20:35). What is a friend? A dictionary defines a friend as "one attached to another by affection or esteem." A true friend can help direct your thoughts toward good things. He can encourage and build you up in times of need. He can even share your grief.